“Although 5 January was almost a year away, the Reset hung over him like a guillotine blade, glinting dully as a constant reminder that everything in this life was temporary. And he now had so much more to lose….“
Such is the plight of Tommy Llewellyn in How To Be Remembered, by Michael Thompson, my last read of 2023. A book I only heard about a couple of weeks ago and knew I had to try.
We meet Tommy during his first birthday. He is fawned over by his adoring parents, despite arriving earlier in their “plan” than anticipated. Yet, something happens to him every year on January 5th. He ceases to exist in the memories of all who know him. Records of him vanish. Friends, enemies, and employers forget him. It is a lonely, frustrating life with a bizarre secret he cannot share with anyone.
We become more acquainted with Tommy in his early teens. Naturally, his parents gave him up when he was an infant because they didn’t know who he was, so he ends up in a group foster home for orphaned children. Each year, Tommy anticipates the “Reset.” And, each year, he approaches it with a bit more knowledge and new ideas about how to survive it and still attend to his basic needs.
The best thing about Tommy is that he isn’t bitter. Frustrated, yes. Lonely, yes. But not bitter. While people who have so much more treat each other with greed and disdain, Tommy looks for small ways to insure a legacy and outwit the Universe and its cruel curse. He does this through kindness, service, and self improvement, knowing full well that his deeds will never be credited to him.
How To Be Remembered is a unique, fascinating read and very difficult to put down. I could’ve done without some of the language, but it was not enough to prevent me from seeing what happened to Tommy, a sympathetic character in the best sense of the word. I highly recommend this book. You will think about it for a long time, pondering themes like family, friendship, and the imprint we all make throughout our lives on the world around us and on each other.
9.5/10 Stars














